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This article explores the essential skill teachers must cultivate to remain effective and emotionally grounded in their work: work–life balance. Drawing from the author’s experience with the Goodwill® Career Coach and Navigator Professional Certificate program—an ICF-recognized training—the article highlights how educators and career navigators routinely confront clients facing serious challenges, including suicidal ideation, trauma, abuse, and dangerous personal situations.

The program emphasizes that effective support begins with self-care. Educators must understand their emotional triggers, recognize the physiological signs of stress, and maintain the ability to respond calmly and respectfully in difficult interactions. Emotional regulation is not simply a personal preference—it directly affects the trust clients place in their educators and navigators. The course outlines practical strategies such as deep breathing, mindful communication, active listening, and maintaining a gentle tone.

The article also connects these lessons to the realities of teaching: education is fundamentally human-to-human work. This makes it meaningful, but also emotionally taxing. Teachers often face heavy emotional loads, sometimes feeling overwhelmed or brought to tears. The current state of schools and cram schools in Japan reflects wider exhaustion—a reminder that self-care is not optional.

Work–life balance includes spending time with family, separating work emotions from personal life, cultivating hobbies, getting adequate sleep, taking vacations, reading, exercising, meditating, and maintaining healthy eating habits. The program also emphasizes daily gratitude, reflection, and intentional rest.

Ultimately, the article concludes that “work–life balance” is the correct answer to the quiz: it is the foundational skill that allows teachers to sustain their work, protect their mental health, and continue supporting students over the long term. Without it, even the most passionate educators eventually burn out. With it, they can remain the steady presence their students need.

【Full English Translation of Article】

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This time’s quiz is this:

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Over the past three posts, the topics have been quite heavy. It may sound inappropriate to say this, but precisely because of that, teachers carry a heavy responsibility—and that makes the work deeply meaningful.

Goodwill® Career Coach and Navigator Professional

I once completed the Goodwill® Career Coach and Navigator Professional Certificate examination. In short, Goodwill® is a nonprofit organization that “supports employment and training through the sale of donated goods.”

The course content included:

• Foundations of Career Navigating and Coaching
• Client Intake, Assessments, Skill Analysis and Planning
• Supporting Clients
• Career Support Community and Resources

The training totaled 67 hours. I initially joined to study coaching, but I ended up learning about employment, layoffs, rebuilding one’s mindset, culture, racism—in short, the reality of the American melting pot.

Becoming a Career Navigator Beyond the Cram School

The program is designed for career navigators, meaning the work goes beyond schools and includes support for adults. It was during this course that I renewed my resolve to become someone whom former cram school students could rely on for future guidance.

Introducing Part of “Foundations of Career Navigating and Coaching”

This course is accredited by the International Coaching Federation (ICF). Although “Professional” is in the program name, the ICF has its own certification levels, so consider this an entry-level course.

Today, I want to share content from this ICF-recognized program:

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Welcome to Self-Care for Career Navigators

As a career navigator, you may encounter many delicate situations. Your clients may have suicidal thoughts or emotions, or they may have attempted suicide. They may be unable to leave abusive relationships, or be in otherwise dangerous circumstances.

This work is extremely rewarding, yet highly stressful, and may exhaust you both physically and emotionally. To support and help clients effectively, you must first ensure that you care for yourself. Doing so allows you to be fully “present” and provide the support and services clients need.

Caring for yourself includes having a realistic perspective on work–life balance and your personal health. By the end of this video, you will learn how to apply daily self-care so you can be your best self for your clients.

You are often an advocate (activist) for clients in difficult situations, and their struggles may weigh heavily on you. Self-care requires effort and commitment. Many of us push self-care aside. Finding a personal practice that works for you is key.

Part of that personal practice is knowing and recognizing your emotional triggers. Identifying triggers is essential. When you encounter them during client interactions, you can respond respectfully.

Emotional triggers are topics, words, actions, or biases that cause you to feel anger, frustration, or disgust.

Are any of these triggers for you?

• Being rejected
• Being ignored
• Being criticized
• Being treated unfairly
• Being betrayed
• Being yelled at
• Losing control
• Being challenged

When a trigger is activated, does your body react? Examples include increased heart rate, stomach discomfort, changes in breathing, changes in facial expression, trembling, or sweaty palms.

It is important to stay calm and maintain control of your emotions. Take a deep breath to lower your heart rate.

Remember: the focus is not how you feel about the situation, but how you respond to the client and their needs.

If a client notices your emotional shift, they may question your competency to support them.

Avoid becoming upset or panicked. Those reactions may escalate or worsen the situation.

Speak in a gentle tone.
Use engagement techniques—nodding, saying “mmm,” asking questions.
Listen to your client.

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Ensuring Work–Life Balance

Another key aspect of your personal practice is maintaining a healthy work–life balance. This includes:

• Spending time with family
• Separating work emotions from personal life
• Making time for hobbies
• Reading
• Getting quality sleep
• Taking vacations
• Walking or exercising
• Meditating or deep breathing
• Eating a healthy, balanced diet and not skipping meals

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Recharging and Gratitude

Finally, recharging yourself is essential. Reflect on what your work means to you (without overthinking—keep it simple).

Commit to finding small pockets of time to walk, read, or enjoy a meal.
Give yourself daily quiet time to think about what you are grateful for and to return to a healthy mental state.

Take care of yourself.

Self-care can:

• reduce or eliminate anxiety and depression
• reduce stress
• improve concentration
• minimize frustration and anger
• increase happiness
• improve energy

From Goodwill Industries International “Foundations of Career Navigating and Coaching,” Module 4

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Teaching Is Human-to-Human Work

It makes me sigh—it’s exactly as they say.

As noted in the program, the difficult situations clients face can easily weigh on you. What makes teaching difficult (though I do not claim other jobs are easy) is that the “opponent” is another human being. It is human-to-human collision. I have had many moments when I felt emotionally drained or wanted to cry.

But schools and cram schools are exhausted. Someone once joked in TALIS that Japanese teachers “live on Jupiter.” Work–life balance is essential. I have many thoughts about this, but that is for next time.

The answer to the quiz is:

Work–life balance.

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